๐๐ข๐ฅ๐ค๐จ๐ฉ๐๐ง ๐๐ฎ๐ฃ๐๐ง๐ค๐ข๐ is a problem that most leaders face. At its core, one of the biggest reasons for it, is because we want to add ๐๐ฎ๐น๐๐ฒ.
True story.
The problem is - "๐ข๐จ๐ฅ ๐๐ข๐๐จ๐ฆ ๐๐๐๐ข๐ ๐๐ฆ ๐ข๐จ๐ฅ ๐๐๐ ๐๐ง๐๐ง๐๐ข๐ก"
Do you want to add value to your Board Members? To the Conference Organisers, your Manager, your staff, the CEO?
Do you see how the focus of 'adding value' holds a YOU focus? It can become about your value, your worth, your 'right' to be there, how qualified you are, how professional you come across etc. etc.
However, when you shift from focusing on "VALUE" to "SERVICE" -
your focus will expand -
๐๐ง๐ค๐ข ๐๐๐ ๐ฉ๐ค ๐๐๐๐.
"Focus on Service over Value"
Now it's not all about you, which decreases anxiety and stress.
When it's about THEM, we can now increase empathy, connection, trust, you will build rapport easier, because you've got nothing to prove about YOU.
When you're prepared - you will add value by default. So let that go.
Hold your focus lightly, give yourself freedom to show up authentically, and permission to share YOU powerfully, by focusing on THEM.
You will reap the rewards, guaranteed.
Would would doing that open up for you as a presenter and as a leader?
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